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MISSING OUT: SIX IRONICAL REALITY OF LIFE

From that time that the rain started falling on us, the sun had ceased to shine. Maybe you won't believe me, but it is what I expected of you. Why? Cus it is the way of all man kind. "Man does better what he loves, not what is forced on him".they said. Very true. Though a times, men does the future and the love buried under the ground. Letting go seems unbearable, but it ease the way out. Now today I had thought of talking of the ironical reality of life. 

There are things that even the gods won't change. Nothing will ever change. They'll remain the same from the first time a child breath the first breathe on earth until the last breathe. I believe also the dead are controlled and lived under these laws. I had seen this in my life and the life of them around and now kindly,  stay calm and read through.  Think of all the points and relate them to whatever you've seen happening around you.

1. Man hears what he wants to hear not what you say.

Have you ever explained yourself to someone and got misunderstood? Well it is not your fault. It is not that you are poor in self defense.  This is how we are, especially when we are hungry or angry.  For instance I said " I won't be able to do this now because I got more things at the moment to think of". What was heard was "I won't do this now because I got something else instead ". The outcome was that I have denied to do it and I won't do it any other time.

2. A decision is made before the discussion. 

Well if at all there is a sin that all man will practise, is "lying". From childhood this can be seen. "Johnny Johnny!" "Yes papa". This is it, even them that doesn't know what it is will do it. Peradventure it isn't wrong.  Remember the father of faith saying that his wife is his sister in the bible? Isaac too his son does the same with his wife. But it is a sin since they both had consequences.  Now when anyone decided to say no to you.  The no was planned already the other day, even before you asked. Well my good friend was fired by his boss.  The boss called for a meeting and everyone had to show how they had been working.  He had been slow though he would ensure that his work is completed. Now the boss wanted to remove his name from the list but he pretended that everything is OK. When he noticed this he begun preparing himself. He new he won't convince him(his boss) when the day comes now that we had been studying men behavior with him. Now in this day he had taken his boss' letters to the right recipient, he took time due to road traffic. His boss called and sayed to him on phone. "Kelly ! Where are you,? You won't be able to step on this office with your feet ever again!. When he arrived at the office there was a meeting discussing his job. Though he had been good, all the boss sees were the negative side which were less and he was forced to quite. It was clearly seen that his boss had fired him some month ago in his minds though this was the day being waited for. So before he was discussed, he had already been fired. It is how man is. We just wait for the small mistake and it is done with you. The opportunityis used well. Your boyfriend or girlfriend would  also brake up with you before you know it. Just call the name of his/her best friend and it is done. So be careful next time. 

3. Your lies are true if you believe in them.

It is true that it is easier to say a person is not saying the truth when they are talking.  Well I had met many during my studies that would say a lie and it becomes the truth. A times what they said even come to happen because they had spoken it out of their hearts. They lived in this world that they had created for themselves. You won't know a person saying the lies if at all you can't be a lier. Live with them in their worldand you are lied to. And similarly,  you won't be noticed if at all you believe in your lies. Am not encouraging lies, am just saying that lies are true if at all you believe in your lies.

4. Life is ironical in nature.

Well even Christ taught this. "Let him that has the little be taken from him and given to the one with more". It's not my teaching, it's Jesus's. If you are doing business you'll understand that the more you invest the more you earn. It is the principle of all life. If you have more you are added more, if you have less you'll have less. It is why Kenyans would say (maskini atazidi kuwa maskini naye tajiri atajirike zaidi). The rich will keep being rich since they have. The poor lacks even the small to invest.  And it had been witnessed all through the world. 

5. Too much of something is poisonous. 

It is what many of us had known. It is in all things, wether it be happening to the rich and the poor. Whether it is  wealth and healthwise, happiness and even wisdom.  I wonder why King Solomon with all his wisdom would still worshipped the idols of his many wives. It is well to be said,  "too much wisdom is stupidity".hahaha! But if at all you are wise you are wise and nothing will change that.

6, lastly,  not all the lazy are poor and all the hard working are rich.
As the donkey works harder than all other animals,  it doesn't mean that it will be richer than the horse. Look at the life of the horse and that of the donkey, you'll tell who seems to be more richer. Well going back to the point no. 4. Most of the people that uses a lot of energy to work are poor. It is true. Many that does simple jobs are growing rich and richer everyday.  So condemning one that he/she is lazy is not good at all. It is better to show someone what they should do and if they can't do it by themselves  show them how to do it with love and kindness.  This might change the world.  

Thank you so much for reading,  kindly like and leave your comments. What do you think of these points?
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